| Making a decision to leave an employer is never an easy one. It is an emotional process that involves our natural fear of change. Even making a positive move by accepting a new position, for all the right reasons, can be a little scary. Anxieties about leaving a familiar job may cloud your thought process.
For that reason, it is in your best interest to become educated on the prevalence and impact of counteroffers. And since counteroffers can create confusion and buyer's remorse, it is particularly important to understand what's being cast upon you so you can guide your decision in the right direction. Counteroffers are made by employers in response to an employee's notice or threat of resignation.
Counteroffers are commonly delivered in the form of flattery. For example:
• You can't desert the team and your friends. You will leave us hanging.
• You're too valuable. We need you.
• We were just about to give you a promotion and a raise. It was confidential until now.
• The president/director wants to meet with you before you make a final decision.
Counteroffers can be in the form of compensation:
• A promotion with greater responsibility and money
• Promises or future considerations
• A modified reporting structure
Accepting a counteroffer is considered career suicide for many reasons. Here are a few to consider:
• Statistics show that 75% to 90% of those who accept counter offers quit within six months or are terminated within one year. Counteroffers are usually nothing more than stall devices to give your employer time to replace you or make a transition on their timetable. Once word gets out, the relationship you enjoy with your co-workers will not be the same. You could lose the personal satisfaction of peer-group acceptance. Meantime the example you have set of gaining a counteroffer can not be tolerated for long by management if they are to maintain harmony within the group. There is a high likelihood that your boss will be looking for your replacement immediately and at a cheaper price
• Has the counteroffer really changed anything? The driving force, the main issue that motivated you to look for another job, is still present, regardless of any change in short-term compensation . Company culture, practices and policies seldom change. The circumstances that caused you to consider a career move remain. If more money was the only reason does getting a raise make you more willing to endure the circumstances that prompted you to accept a new position?
• Since your company has salary guidelines, it is probable that your actions merely accelerated your next raise. When promotion time comes around, your employer will remember that your loyalty can be bought and if the economy tanks, chances are very good that you will be at the top of the list for personnel cutbacks.
• If you accepted the new offer and then accept a counter offer you will have burned the bridge with your prospective new employer and tarnished your reputation within your industry. Chances are good that your new employer has already cancelled interviews, open job notices and arranged for training. If your new employer pulled the rug out from under you by rescinding the offer, how would you feel? Don't pull the rug from under them. It's like leaving someone at the alter
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